Why I WON’T Give Up Hope
My son has autism.
Not the mathematical genius kind.
But not the physically and mentally disabled kind either.
So, not the “easy” kind,
But not the “super hard” kind either.
He has the kind that makes him need to wear headphones at church to muffle the music, because it hurts.
He has the kind that makes him need to regulate his environment by hitting sticks or spoons in front of his face when he is really excited or tired or stressed or a TON of other emotions!
He has the kind that makes his voice not work when and how his brain tells it to. So he doesn’t talk.
He has the kind that makes looking into my or your eyes very difficult for him.
He has the kind that keeps me up at night thinking, worrying and yes, praying over his future.
He has the kind that makes him wander away, especially in larger crowds of people.
He has the kind that’s required multiple weekly visits with speech and occupational therapists since before the age of 3.
He has the kind that makes him touch so many things to his lips just to feel it’s texture so he catches every single germ bug that flies around.
He has the kind that makes him have to bend down and feel the gravel in every single parking lot he gets into.
He has the kind that makes a double stroller a necessity for family outings even though he’s almost five and his feet can drag the ground!
He has the kind that makes him have to sit in a shopping cart seat even though it’s becoming increasingly difficult to fit his long legged self into it just to stay safe at the grocery store.
He has the kind that makes doctor visits, therapy appointments and insurance calls a regular occurrence for our family.
He has the kind that makes apples a favorite food, but applesauce can’t be within a 10 ft radius of his mouth.
He has the kind that makes him never get dizzy no matter how many times in a row his Daddy flips him upside down and spins him around.
He has the kind that makes Facebook memories a difficult thing when he used to do so many things that he now can’t.
But it won’t always be this way….
Because he has the kind that makes drinking milk from a carton a success story worthy of sharing!
Because he has the kind that makes tickles and cuddles the highlight of our days.
Because he has the kind that makes his big sister want to “play” with kids as one of her grown up jobs.
Because he has the kind that makes swinging bring out the biggest and brightest smile you’ve ever seen!
Because he has the kind that keeps me on my knees all day long!
Because he has the kind that makes me believe in miracles …
And because I see them happening every single day.
*fyi there is no “easy” or “super hard” autism …. Just variations and degrees of disability on our different walks through life!